“To receive someone’s best. True anger, true tears, true smiles. When it comes to emotions, honesty in my opinion, is the true lesson of life. Corporate life style where everyone hides behind the suit, and speaks with a strange tongue, no. When you feel like crying, but you pretend to be tough, your vibrations will make you nothing of both. You might be able to fool a little person, but only for some time. Just like you knew that day, that everything was not ok. Yes, I cry, my emotions can jump from south to north and back to equator before I can finish my sentence. It comes naturally, and so, it is what it is. They
deserve to know me regardless, if I like me or not. With smaller kids we do have limitations based on their age, but with time, the limitations should vanish. People would like to know everything about their best friend. More you know about the person, closer you are to that person. Applies to parents and kids as well. I would love to be a hero or a huge stable rock, but I’m none of those things, and I’m not going to pretend. If I work on me (it would have to be day and night) and change into a hero, I will present myself as am I. My son is 10 and so when we have a conversation I use vocabulary (on purpose ) let’s say, not pg13. True life and no bull shit. Existence is based on mistakes. Imperfection is a definition of a humanity. Emotions will follow us till the day we die. Let’s express them proudly and teach our kid to do the same. Keeping shit inside and pretending gets everyone in trouble. It is the main cause for unhappiness. Son, your dad ain’t perfect in no shape or form. I’m a human of many defects, but let me tell you one thing. For you, I would jump into the gates of hell. Shit I’m so off track… I started with one of your sentences on my mind and I ended up all over the map. All I wrote, applies to my believes, and I’m not telling anybody to listen to me, or to follow my ideas. All I was trying to say, when your daughter saw you cry, although sad, it was truly a valuable experience.”